While being a little and an abdl are what I tend to talk about on here (and are some of my biggest kinks) I partake in a wide number of other kinks as well. I’d like to shine the light on them for a little bit in this post! These aren’t in any particular order other than how they came to mind.
Please note that some of what I’ll be talking about could be potentially triggering for some. Read this post at your own risk. Also, I’m a RACK (Risk aware consensual kink) kinkster and not SSC (safe, sane, consensual) as I do not believe anything we do in kink, no matter how mild it might seem, is safe and sane is subjective.
♡ Impact play! I’m super into impact play in all its forms! From spanking, to body punching, to using paddles or canes, or kicking. If it’s impact related, I love it. I’m a switch when it comes to this kind of play though lately I’ve been on the topping end of it. My favorite implements to both use and receive are my meat tenderizer, my baseball bat, and my blackjack.
✩ Dark Ageplay! I wasn’t going to include this on my list as it’s pretty obvious that I enjoy the darker aspects of ageplay as well just from my posts but yes! I’m very much into dark ageplay and am a sexual little.
♡ Pet play! I’m a pet! In fact, pet play is how I found my way into the bdsm community! When I first got started, I identified as a submissive kitten. Nowadays, I still am a kitten but I primarily identify as a panda cub. You can read about what my panda space means to me here! I currently have two pairs of panda ears and I have a cotton candy looking tail but it’s more of a bunny tail where as panda tails are shaped sort of like a deer’s tail. I want an all white one (because panda’s tails are white not black) with some sparkles in it. However, my kitten space doesn’t really have set colors and I can slip into it with any type of kitten gear.
✩ Wax play! I am a switch when it comes to wax play and have been a demo top at a few events for it! I like taking a creative and fun approach to wax by creating pictures on the bottom’s skin as well as a few other fun tricks that I like to keep secret unless you are bottoming to me and consent to it. I mainly do it for first timers so they can have a memento of their first wax scene.
♡ Fire play! I am also a fire play switch though I strongly prefer to bottom for this. Daddy and I normally use fire play as aftercare to cool me down after a hard impact scene. It’s one of my favorite things to be on the receiving end for because of how relaxing it is.
✩ Power exchange! Power exchange is HUGE for me. It is both a kink and a lifestyle for me because it’s how I prefer to structure my relationships unless otherwise stated.
♡ Rope and bondage! I am pretty much a bottom exclusively for rope and bondage. I don’t mind incorporating elements of bondage into a scene but I strongly prefer to be on the receiving end. I prefer mental bondage when I Top though.
✩ Boot blacking and leather. Again, more of a lifestyle than a kink but I want to learn how to work on boots properly. I was gifted a piece of leather from a leather little and it’s by far one of my most cherished possessions because of how important the gift of leather means in the leather community. Leather in itself is also a turn on for me. The smell of it and the feel of it- umph!
♡ Needles! I love love love love love love love needle play. Being someone’s pincushion to create painful artwork with my skin is just so wonderful. There are so many other kinks you can incorporate with needle play and that makes me love it even more. I’ve had needles used as a form of predicament bondage, have had needle buttons caned, and even added a bit of littleness to a needle scene by being turned into a LaLaLoopsy Doll or Coraline by having buttons sewn over my eyes.
✩ Consensual Non-Consent or anything “forced!” There’s not much to say here, I just really enjoy being forced to do things or have things done to me. Ageplay elements can be incorporated into this as well as more sexual and graphic things as well. I also switch for this.
♡ Watersports! I love me some pee! But really though, like pee on me plz. Or pee in my diaper or something. I’ve only really explored watersports from a bottom’s perspective and have only topped for it once. I’m not 100% sure how I feel about topping for it yet though.
✩ Violet Wands! I love topping and bottoming for violet wands. The anticipation of the electricity and then the zap! What’s not to love?! I also enjoy how many different things you can do with one of them. You can be sensual, sadistic, playful or really however your style is! Violet Wand brandings are also a lot of fun to give as well.
♡ Pants wetting/omorashi! Nothing turns me on more than being told I have to hold my pee and then ultimately wetting my pants or diapers because I can’t. I love the embarrassment that comes with it and the other kinks you can work into this fetish too.
✩ Humiliation & Degradation! Make me blush and feel like the naughtiest person ever. “Force” me to do all the things we’ve only talked about in secret because you know it’ll turn my cheeks red. Being spat on, used for someone’s sexual pleasure, having my face/hair rubbed in bodily fluids after sex, being peed on or having to drink pee- like all of that is fucking hot as fuck to me. Tell me how stupid I am and that I can’t do things for myself because I’ll just fuck them up.
And there you have it! I’m into way more than just ageplay and abdl related activities, haha! I hope I didn’t scare any of you off with the fact that I’m not just a little and that my little space isn’t always “pure.”